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Battling Burnout: Six Tips for Practicing Self Care In The Midst of Burnout

Burnout is real, ya’ll. 

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As a graduate student and up-and-coming social worker, I often hear a ton about the importance of self-care. But what classifies as self-care exactly?

One way to figure out the best methods for self-care is to focus on…well, yourself. Take note of what’s ailing you lately. In other words, take the time to figure out if you’re burnt out. You might be asking yourself this: how do I know if I’m burnt out? Or, in lamens terms, how do I know that I’m stressed out?

In my experience, burnout can look different for everyone.

To one, burnt-out might be finding that they are continually skipping meals throughout the day. To another, it could be that their concentration has been non-existent, and they can’t seem to focus on the projects at hand.


For me, burnout looks a little like this:

  • My room is in a constant state of disarray—clothing piled up on my chair or left out and unfolded after wash day.
  • My hair is just left to do its own thing—I should never give my hair too much freedom, it’s not a good look.
  • I consistently feel aches and pains that show up in my body throughout the week.
  • My eating patterns are complete trash—I’m talking cereal for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

Once you identify your signs of burnout, you might be wondering what’s next. What should you do about it? Well, I don’t know what your exact symptoms of burnout are, but I’d love to share with you what helps me in my process of remedying serious stress. 

Try to…

Take a shower first thing when you wake up

This one’s been a tremendous help for me when I’m really feeling worn down. Taking a nice, warm shower helps to clear my mind, by taking inventory of the places in my body that have experienced pain, cleansing my body and revitalizing my soul (listen to some good music while you bathe, it helps!). And after a nice shower, might I suggest grabbing your favorite good smelling lotion and taking the time to moisturize your body well.

Clean up your surroundings and de-clutter your environment

Another helpful task to treat burnout that works well for me is cleaning up my space. I’ve come to realize that usually when my bed or room is chaotic, it often reflects how I’ve been feeling internally: all over the place, unorganized, messy—you get the picture. By de-cluttering my space and freeing up my surroundings, I find that my mind is clearer almost immediately. (Pro tip: feeling like cleaning up your entire space is TOO daunting? Take it one room, one section at a time. Putting away clothes after doing laundry? Tackle them in sections—separate your jeans from your sweatshirts. Your tees from your undergarments.)

Stop scrolling and start reading

I don’t know about you, but for me a mindless scroll through Instagram can easily become a daily (or hourly) habit. So much so, that my mind gets inundated with other people’s lives—people I don’t even know personally. And then all of a sudden, I seem to know everything that they did that day before noon. Instead of picking up your phone to check if they made it through that workout class in one piece, grab some good reading material and get to it. If you’re a creative like me, take a look at: Called to Create: A Biblical Invitation to Create, Innovate, and Risk by Jordan Raynor. If you’re looking for some shorter reads and fantastic visuals, check out some awesome publications like Darling or Belong Magazine.

Tune in and take care of your body

One of the first symptoms of burnout I experience is tension in my neck, shoulders and lower back. I hold a lot of tension in my shoulders on a daily basis, but when I’m really spent, it feels so much more uncomfortable. To remedy this, I’ve found that at times, guided relaxation meditation or 15 minutes of restorative yoga does wonders for healing my body of its aches and pains. Taking inventory of where your body hurts can also give you helpful insight to know what is causing your body pain. Read more about this mind-body phenomenon here

Let’s not forget—you are what you eat. When burnout is at its peak in my life, my eating habits also take a turn for the worse. When all I eat is trash, I start to feel like trash. By now, we should all be aware of the fact that stress can lead to unhealthy eating habits—but how do we curb our cravings for unhealthy foods, or as Mind, Body, Green puts it, “non-food-junk”? Check out their tips on how to end unhealthy food cravings on the Mind, Body, Green blog here

 

Go outside…and play

Guys, I’m the first to admit it: I’m not athletic. But when my friends texted me asking to join them for a game of hoops, I decided that was just what I needed. I needed to play, to be outside and experience the warmth of the sun on my skin. And, you know what? That was just the thing I needed to revitalize my mind and psyche. Even if you’re terrible at it, there’s no shame in giving it a try and laughing at your terrible aim—especially if you’re with good friends!

Just say “no”

As a graduate student, I’ve learned this lesson the hard way many times. I’m in school full-time, working for a professor, and doing an internship for about 16 hours each week. Saying “no” is like my secret weapon—one I don’t use nearly as often as I should.

Over time, I’ve come to realize that there is such power in being able to say “no” to things that are just too much. To people who don’t have your best interest in mind. To activities that stress you out more than they invigorate you. Or events that cause you more unnecessary anxiety than you can manage. Know your limits and honor them. You’re not helping anyone by ignoring your need for rest, time to yourself or even just a minute to breathe.


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These are just a few tips that have helped me in the past. And I share them in hopes that you find some tactics that work well for you too. Take the time to understand what’s burning out that bright light of yours and find ways to relight, reinvigorate and revive it. 

Have you experienced burnout before?

What works for you when you start to notice it? 

Originally published on Healthy Dash of Sass

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Leighann

Twenty-something, lover of Jesus. I like animals (esp. dogs), Fun-Fetti cupcakes and yoga. I love God and do my best to love others. I hate too-warm weather and socks that fall into your shoes when you walk. I'm a huge fan of Christian rap and cold, sunny days.

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  • Katrina

    I love this post – burnout is so real in my every day life, and I love reading posts like this because it makes me feel less alone, haha. My favorite way to combat burnout is to put on a face mask and work on my blog for a little bit or listen to music. I always come out feeling better in the end 🙂

    • Leighann

      Leighann

      Thanks for sharing those tips, Katrina! I love the idea of face masks–I’m a huge fan of impromptu spa days–thanks for reading!

  • Mimi

    Wow, I didn’t even think that some of my “bad habits” could be attributed to burn-out. We totally take on too much as Moms, and there are days that I have to let them have lunchables and cereal for dinner.
    Thank you for the good tips to use; I’ll be taking a step back after Easter, for sure. 🙂

    • Leighann

      Leighann

      I’m so glad this was helpful to you, Mimi and I so appreciate you reading!

  • Kelly

    I feel like I’m always burnt out hahaha. Thank you for this post. The clearing of your space is a big one for me as my mind feels even more cluttered if my home is! I always try to keep things tidy and neat and that instantly makes me feel at ease so I can concentrate on other things.

    • Leighann

      Leighann

      Yes, keeping things nice and organized has been key for me too–thanks so much for reading, Kelly!

  • Rebecca

    Such good advice!! It’s so easy to get burned out and not even realize it! I especially love “Stop scrolling, start reading.” Mindless scrolling is one of my tell-tale signs of tiredness and burn out, but I feel so much better when I take the time to read something life-giving instead! Saying “no” is a HUGE one for me to! In fact, I wrote something similar in a recent post (http://honestlyrebecca.galeskas.com/practical/spreading-yourself-too-thin/) where I talk about spreading myself too thin….the exact thing that leads to burn out!! Thanks so much for sharing this! I’m keeping this one close by to reference when I need a good reminder 🙂

    • Leighann

      Leighann

      Thanks for sharing that Rebecca–I look forward to reading!

  • An

    No offense but it made sense you were burned out. Your past posts have been a bit too cyncial. It sounds like you had a fallout with a few people. They must have meant a lot to you if you’re hurt about it.

    • Leighann

      Leighann

      Hey girl, thanks for your message–miss having you around.

  • N

    Yes burnout definitely is real! Great tips on self care.

    • Leighann

      Leighann

      Thanks so much–it is so real. I appreciate you reading, girl!

  • Tisha

    Your posts are ALWAYS right on time for me! I recently allowed myself to burn out and I thought I could keep working through it. I didn’t realise that you could burn out from burning out, sis I mean burnout x2! I could literally feel my body shutting down. I’ve had to learn how to say no all over again and open up to accepting self-care. Being unable to find the balance in self care put me off altogether so I definitely needed this reminder! God bless you girl! Always got a word for me😂

    • Leighann

      Leighann

      Ah, Tisha–thank YOU for bringing me life! But seriously, I so appreciate you reading and your encouragement, girl! I’m so glad this post resonated with you.

  • JLyn

    This is a great article. If I’m not careful I start to feel burnout with everything going on my life. I definitely need to get better at saying no. Thanks for sharing!

  • Megan

    Love this post. Especially your point about ditching social media for a while. A lot of times we get on social media to “relax” but actually end up more wound up after scrolling for 30 minutes. Thanks for these tips!

    • Leighann

      Leighann

      So real–thanks for reading and sharing, Megan!

  • jani

    As a medical student I can 100% relate to burnout. I have been through this several times but I’ve luckily learned to manage and identify most of it early on before it becomes an impediment. These are all great tips and I do most of them, I find taking a bath at night before bed work a lot better for me, but in the morning washing my face with cold cold water helps me get ready for the day. I also love doing guided meditations before bed to soothe my mind and that usually helps too. Thanks for sharing!

    Jani | http://www.mylifeinmedicineblog.com

    • Leighann

      Leighann

      Thanks so much for reading and sharing your experience, Jani! I love the taking baths before bed–with some candles and good music, that sounds divine.

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